malisab wrote:I think all your rambling and ruminating is great. That's what I do too.
I do enjoy writing, I find it helpful to get my thoughts down as I find my brain goes way too fast all the time, which feels borderline ADD at times. Anyway, glad I'm not boring you to death.
malisab wrote:I'll jump in on a few of the items that kadkin didn't.
-on having your check split to multiple accounts.
On the one hand, this is what kept me afloat pre-ynab. The only reason my house wasn't foreclosed and my cars weren't repossessed was that I had $xxxx go into an account that I didn't carry a debit card for, while our paychecks (which could vary) minus $xxxx went into the account we spent from. Fortunately, I held that account sacred and didn't lose any of my worldly possessions. Unfortunately, since all the extra we made went into the spending account I always spent the extra. AND I continued to build up my CC balances all the while.
So it's a bit of the pot calling the kettle black, but dividing up your income into different physical bank accounts might accomplish what you want on one level (ie: segregating what gets spent on bills) it's not solving another problem (using the CC to 'tide you over') and it's CREATING another problem...it's much more work to deal with in YNAB! And to top it off, IF you're using YNAB as intended, it's totally unnecessary!
What you're proposing to do with physical accounts (which come with the liability that if you don't keep up with your records the greatest come with the added bonus of potentially costing you tons in NSF/OD fees) is EXACTLY what YNAB does with it's categories. IF you record what you spend (more on that in a minute), and spend according to category balances, you're attaining the same result without the downsides.
What concerns me is that if I just work from one big pot of money, so to speak, and am even just a little less than diligent about entering transactions . . . I'm going to spend pre-allocated funds on something I wasn't supposed to and keep up this cycle. I personally think it would help me NOT use the CCs if I had a little designation or boundaries of what money gets used for what. Again, I see the end game and working from as few accounts as possible is probably the best plan, but I'm not sure I'm there yet. Additionally, one of the banks (ING), doesn't do NSF exactly. They "loan" you the money at an interest rate that's not loan shark rates which is also helpful. Not sure about the other (Ally), will have to check. I'd move to one of them wholesale, but for the lack of brick-and-mortar which sometimes comes in handy.
malisab wrote:It sounds like it's your 'out and about' spending that is the biggest issue. Maybe? Food, cigarettes, etc.? I'm a total debit/credit card gal. As part of a couple, it's worked out well for us because of the record of spending. However, if I was single (or had finances separate from my partner) and having the spending issues that I had previously and it sounds like you're having now, I'd switch to cash for those things.
Do you really care how much you spend on A vs. B as far as walking-around-spending-money type spending money goes? If not, then withdraw the amount you're comfortable spending per week (or couple days or two weeks...whatever you're comfortable with at first) and treat it as GONE in YNAB. Use a Fun Money category or a Spending Money category. Whatever makes sense to you. In the future, you can 'graduate' to tracking that spending more closely. But for now, the big thing is to limit it (I think.) The big thing, in this scenario, is to stick to the schedule. If you withdraw a week's worth of money and you spend it in 4 days, then it's mac and cheese cooked at home and sitting on the couch for the next 3 days. And if you can't carry cards without using them...don't carry them.
I care to the extent that I know where that money is going. The problem is more that I have a big cash hole with only a base understanding of where it goes. I take out $100 at a time and some of it's cigs, some of it's eating lunch, some of it's ??? So yeah, for now I should probably track that so I can budget (or find where to cut back).
malisab wrote:-as for how to get to a buffer when you need to first do a, b, c...dont' worry about it yet. It's a non-issue. It's a nice to have, not a need to have. If it's more important to you than a vacation, a new monitor, new headphones or whatever, then direct your money there. If it's not, don't. Some history: the buffer used to be rule 1. A lot of people used to see it as a barrier to using ynab. They'd see it and think 'I can't even get a buffer together, I'll never be able to use YNAB, I'll never be able to budget, why bother.' And while it's amazingly awesome to have the buffer in place, it's not necessary and shouldn't make you feel like you're doing it wrong or something if you don't have it. Work with what you've got.
-as for making those extra-big payments on your CC. Another pot calling the kettle black story here...don't do it. If you're at a place where you can do it and you know you won't be turning around and putting stuff back on the card, great. But if you're going to either purposefully or in a moment of weakness put stuff on the card, you're SO just chasing your tail (at best). Or you could get caught like me where, I directed a HUGE chunk to pay down on the CC, thinking I had that free-space on the card as my 'emergency funds' and BOOM - they lowered my credit limit to what I then had outstanding. Thousands of dollars that I 'had at my disposal' --- gone. That's when a couple of posts by Patzer (forum member who, happily, is back around since we've been testing YNAB 4) really took hold for me:
[url="http://www.youneedabudget.com/forum/the-rules-f1/topic5260.html#p35596"]Letting Money Sit[/url]
[url="http://www.youneedabudget.com/forum/the-rules-f1/topic5260-15.html#p56626"]March Better Not Faster[/url]
Funny, that was my thought process as I made those large payments last week. "Well, worst case, you can just use that money if you're calculating wrong (I always am it seems) and suck up the finance and interest charges. Best case you made a chink in that debt armor!". Of course I'm now finding that I need that money and incurring fees and interest to make it through the week. Fail.
malisab wrote:-lastly, your pay schedule and halving your expenses. The way I see it, you'd actually be moving backwards if you do this. How so you ask? IF the goal is to enter all paychecks as Income for (next month) {note: for those playing along at home, that's the new designation for Income: Available Next Month for YNAB 4} which as discussed above, may not be right now, but I'll ramble on as if it is, then you're already half way there. And really, based on the fact that you said I had things pretty close to reality with my last gigantic post, you're better than half way there.
IF you can enter your 29th check as Income for July (since you'll be downloading YNAB 4 on Tuesday, of course) because you have enough spending money available right now to make it through the 1st, you are at least half way there. (I'm leaving out the vacation and other new baubles you mentioned for the sake of discussion since I don't know amounts on them or when the vacation is, etc.) It seemed like the $500 left after 'fixed' expenses should carry you through to the 15th. Find a way to make that happen! Then, when you get paid on the 15th, theoretically, you need about $500 for the other non-fixed expenses to get you through the last two weeks. And you have significantly less 'fixed' expenses to come out of that pay, so you shouldn't REALLY need it all to get you through until the end of the month. So, I'd recommend when you get your 7/15 check you set a goal to enter it as a split paycheck: Part as Income for July and part as Income for August. Figure out an amount, not crazy high, that you're comfortable sending ahead. $100? $300? $500? You decide. This is where you start weighing things like vacation, etc. Budget some of the money to those categories as well. Then, your goal with your 8/15 check is to send at least that much ahead again. Or more. Then you'll have $400 or $600 or $1000 more than your end of the month check available to budget for August. If it's in the higher range, maybe you can even pay ALL your 'fixed' expenses on August 1st. How sweet would THAT be? That's getting close to being buffered. If not in August, then September. Or October.
I'd planned on just fudging the 29th date in YNAB to be the 1st of July and rolling on. Is that a bad idea? I'm definitely, at this juncture, going to end up spending money over the weekend (likely paying any bills I know about since I like to do that first thing) and such. See? Absent-minded professor just remembered that I'm going on a mini-vacation that weekend, which was by and large pre-paid at the end of June, but I'm sure something will come up that requires $$. And I know, I read like I'm forever on vacation, but really am not. 2012 has become an interesting year for me honestly. I moved in with someone (offer on an amazing duplex with huge patio and in prime real estate), which meant about $5000 in first/last/etc up front (though thankfully the landlord who's a friend was willing to be paid over a few months, since of course I didn't have it) off the bat, and then to help/hinder things, I now have shared expenses. So far we've worked out that I'll handle the cable and they'll handle the gas/electric, which amounts to about the same. In the back of my head I wonder what happens when they have a money issue and I have to cover that. How do I account for that (sure, sock away for rainy day in YNAB) AND not make the bad choice of deciding, "eh, probably won't need it, haven't so far, so fuck it, let's spend it!"? Then, of course, there's the amorphous "new apartment things" category which . . .who knows, that stuff seems to just show up least expected I find. I dunno if you can answer that , just rambling.
Anyway, as it stands now, referring to my old custom spreadsheet setup, period 2 is for bills like credit card payments, cable/internet, and incidental things like (motorcycle mirror now, grrrr), money for impending vacation (more on that in a minute), and the like. According to the spreadsheet, income for that period, minus bills just mentioned, it leaves me with roughly 30% of $2500 ($750) for 2 weeks. Remember, that's eating out, going out, cigs, etc. And (this is clearly a spending behavior issue) NYC is the kind of town you sort of
have to go out. I never used to drink really (I'm from the west coast, which, I'll leave it at I was used to spending that money on other things, heh), but I've found that everything social here centers around a bar. "Yeah, let's meet up at "x" bar later?". Ugh, fiiiine. I've since learned to drink like a fish or sit at home going crazy not making any friends 'cos they're all out. Which, of course, means a) more money spent on drinks, and b) poor money decisions made after several of said drinks. Mind, I'm not getting dance off pants off wasted, but even a few drinks and bad decision monster rears it's head, heh. Again though, that's a behavior issue I'm not sure I can YNAB out exactly. Though maybe!
Back to the point though, so . . . the vacation, it's not negotiable, I'm going and can't back out at this juncture. It's happening at the end of July. I figured $1500 initially, that's for airfare (hovering between $600-700), all-inclusive food (about $350), and possibly a need for a rental car ($600ish for a week, split between two people). I've since got an offer for $375 airfare - so I've adjusted the spreadsheet and YNAB (yes, I realize I'm doing dual duty, but it helps me error-check a bit with my poor estimation skills) to plan for $975 - I'm leaving in the rental car just in case it's a necessity as it's a "maybe, not sure" I was told. The 30% mentioned above is
after that expense AND another that I've owed for a vacation since last November (a friend of mine likes to vacation a lot and ends up loaning me the money). So, we're still at $750. YNAB is telling me right now as I look at it that my buffer is -$850 for July and that I've over-budgeted by -$840 (so really I'm on budget with 10 bucks to spare in a sense, but I didn't account for that negative buffer).
*Live update! - as an example of where I miscalculate things
all the damn time, I just realized I can chop out that $350 for all-inclusive from July and move it to August since that's when it'll be due, actually already had it in August, but forgot to subtract from July - the vacation is end of July and into August. So that lowers the $975 to $625 and reduces that negative buffer!* That
just now find also means that in August, according to YNAB, I'm only over budgeted by $60. And in September I have $190 available to budget. *Oooh, another find! I had apparently planned to pay extra on a CC, which, if I cut it down to minimum or maybe $10 over to make myself feel a little better, heh, that puts me in the green in August and
super-green in September!* Now, as I type that, in the back of my mind going a 1000 miles an our is "ok, wtf am I not thinking of or accounting for?" Or what the hell is going to rear it's head and go "oh hi, you owe me some money!"?
Anyway, let's assume that's all correct and I found a windfall though, just to continue this conversation. The monitor . . . I have three (I make music and do IT stuff), well two now, one died, but it's not a need right now thing and I just need to exercise self-control for a few months. It's been dead for that many already, so I can live a couple more. First world problems eh? Heh. The new computer? No idea on cost or when, but let's assume it's $1200 (I build my own, so can probably affect that when I get in "build list parts" mode), so not something I need right now and if I can find the time, can probably look into that fan noise and spend a fraction of the cost just fixing it. Then again it may just die on me while I'm typing now, it's definitely heading into end of life territory at 6 years. Shrug, I'm back-burnering it for now, but it serves of an example of things I don't account for and find myself caught out because I didn't do so.
malisab wrote:Or maybe this sounds very constricting and you'd rather not work towards a buffer now, that's TOTALLY fine too. But it sounds like if you were to reign in some of the stuff where 'the money just disappears' this shouldn't be too big of a stretch.
If you want to keep rambling with folks on the forum, and you're committed to this vacation, if you wouldn't mind sticking a number on it and saying how far off it is, it'd be easier to help see this through. Also, say if you think, based on this last post, you're up for building your buffer now or if you'd like to take me up on my permission to wait. And last, you mentioned new computer, monitor, headphones etc. How much and how soon and how big of a priority are these things?
I like your writing style and you seem receptive to conversing. I hope I haven't overstepped any bounds. Honestly, this is how I entertain myself on a Sunday morning (and avoid things like laundry, vacuuming and the like

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Ok, I'm going to stop there as I need to get on some other things, and beyond some super glue (mirror, fingers crossed) and a pack of smokes, have no planned expenses for today. Glad you like my style and really appreciate you taking the time even if it just amounts to me mostly blah blah blahing and having self-realizations, it means a lot. I feel like maybe some of your questions went unanswered, if so, not intentional, and I'm sure I'll come back and re-read and over-analyze this again more than once today. But yes, on to other things for now! Thanks again!