I've been a YNAB user since August of 2008. Doesn't seem like it's been that long, but time does fly. My goal was to have a buffer in place by December. Ahhh, so ambitious! Instead, we arrived in Bufferland on March 5, 2009. See my post here. So exhilarating! So thrilling!
We used the buffer to pay down a credit card several months later. *sigh* A credit card that we ended up putting more things on & STILL owe to this day.
So, here we sit, a year after our buffer was complete, back to square one.
And we've LEARNED. DH and I have realized how bad we were at sticking to our budget. How bad we were at our goal of getting rid of the debt. So last month we hacked at the budget & basically pinky swore to each other that the debt was going to be GONE this year. THIS year. We're hoping by December to have $14k blown away & smacked into smithereens. This means we MUST stick to our budget - adapting it as needed - so that we can give that debt a whats for.
But... in my zest & zeal for eliminating the debt, I made a boo boo in February. I made an extra payment on our Sears card. Before the end of the month. Without a buffer in place.
You know what happens when you don't have a buffer & you make an extra payment on the credit card?
HULLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH, Mr. Murphy!
New plan - or, I should say, a modified plan. Get a buffer in place. Then attack debt.
Good one.
Ahhh, but that is not all the old dog has FINALLY learned.
I was doing a budget for March - the entire month of March. But we only have one paycheck so far. I realized that my doing it this way could seriously be a hindrance to us moving forward. Heck, it is talked about again and AGAIN on these boards & in the Rules. Only budget the dollars you HAVE, not what you're forecasting!!!!
After 2.5 years of being a YNAB'er, it FINALLY sunk in. I did a "save as" of our forecasted budget (I had entered future paychecks throughout 2010 to see where we could pay off the cards.) Then I deleted everything in the current budget & ONLY entered what we had income for. So now when I open our budget, I only see what we TRULY have. (And I can always look at the forecasted budget to see if we're sticking to our debt payoff goals.)
This "trick" is something that is so important - I can't stress it enough for you newbies! Don't be as I was for so long - don't be so gung ho that you enter future paychecks & mess up what you have vs what you MIGHT have. Until you get that buffer in place, only budget what you HAVE in the bank or CU. Seeing LIMITS for spending will help curb the desire to spend!
I hope that this post can help one or more of you. Don't get down on yourself because you don't understand or did something wrong. Think of me and the 2.5 years it took to get it right. (And then learn from me so you don't take 2.5 years yourself!
Good luck. Ask questions. We're here to help.

