by Anonybrit » Fri Jun 29, 2012 1:12 pm
I going to go out on a limb here and disagree with most of the above - but you can ignore me 'cos I'm such a newbie that I'm still on the trial period. (Doesn't mean I've never budgeted before, though...)
Personally, I think that you have to first of all budget in the stuff you can't avoid: rent, mortgage, food you have to have, fuel, minimum payments on cards, etc.
If that uses everything, then life is going to be quite tricky.
But if not, then you budget with what's left - dependent on your priorities.
Personally, to me Christmas is not optional. Neither is vacation. They are going to happen and money is going to be spent. I don't have the choice to opt out.
So to me, knowing that I WILL spend money on Christmas and Holidays, my budget needs to build in monthly accruals to that amount. If I don't, come December the whole thing is going to go to pot.
This means that I will have less money for paying off the debt, which will be long-term costly in interest, and less money for savings and less money for extravagances, etc, but to me, saying to myself in July "Ok, we won't have any Christmas Presents this year or a holiday next summer" is simply unrealistic.
I am saying "Ok, this year's Christmas and next year's holiday are going to be much more economical", but they are there in the budget.