You may remember me from my guest blog back in January 2016: Tackling Big Debts on a Small Salary. Since that post was published, I’m ecstatic to share that my husband and I have paid off all of our debt—$35,000!—and it’s all thanks to YNAB!
Not only are we debt-free, we’ve managed to:
- Save $2,500 in an emergency fund—repeatedly, thanks to Murphy’s Law!
- Pay cash for our cross-country move, with just 3.5 months’ notice of said move!
- Begin studying for new college degress—both me and my husband!
- Transition to living entirely off one income—a huge win for us!
Paying off Debt Is Simple, Not Easy.
Paying off debt took some fairly drastic measures. When I was single, I cut all of my expenses to the bare minimum, which included moving back in with my mom to save on rent. I also took a part-time job, working evenings and weekends, in addition to my full-time job.
During this time, I met my future husband. It was amazing but added an extra layer of complexity—including 13 months of unemployment and underemployment. See, after we got married, we moved.
This caused some disruptions to my career. I had a difficult time finding a full-time job in my field. To make ends meet, I ended up working two part-time, minimum-wage jobs. I took as many hours as I could get, often working more than 80 hours a week. We lived simply, using gifted hand-me-down furniture, and cutting corners. It was not an easy time, and YNAB has been the constant through it all!
Our crazy ride has taught my husband and I some big lessons, and helped us feel in control of our life, even when that seemed nearly impossible. Here are four of my favorite lessons:
1. I Learned to Save for My True Expenses
Before YNAB, I lived the “paycheck to paycheck” lifestyle. Whenever I had a large expense, I
would skimp elsewhere in my budget or charge it to my credit card. I specifically remember the stress of a particular time, when I had just started using YNAB, and I needed groceries, gas, and enough money to pay the minimum on my credit card. I didn’t have enough to pay for any of the above!
Now, nightmares like this are a thing of the past. It’s an amazing feeling to know that the money you need is there, just waiting to do its job—and to see that ‘unexpected’ expenses are actually things that you can plan for!
2. I Don’t Feel Guilt About Money, Anymore
Before YNAB, I was what you would call “feast or famine” with my self-care. I would deprive
myself of inexpensive treats because “100 percent of my money must go towards bills or my debt snowball.”
Naturally, about three weeks into the month, I would buy one thing for myself … and, then, since I already ‘ruined’ my budget for the month, I’d give myself permission to buy another thing (and another thing)—and the cycle would continue. It’s like when you cheat on your diet and, because you weren’t perfect, you just give up entirely. Then you start all over, again. It’s exhausting to be stuck on this hamster wheel of “next month I’ll improve my finances.”
With YNAB, I learned that it’s okay to take care of myself! Because I had begun allocating for
recurring expenses, I was able to treat myself from time to time (within budget, of course) and still make progress on my debt.
3. My Husband and I Finally Agree About Finances.
Like most married couples, my husband and I have two different theories about finances. He’s a
spender; I’m a saver. YNAB was a key to helping us easily merge our finances after our wedding. In fact, I made my husband his own YNAB account and helped him budget his money
while we were engaged! YNAB allows us to easily see where we need to trim our expenses for our shared money goals, but also allows me to not feel guilty for having my own fun money.
4. I’ve Discovered Real Freedom.
YNAB gave me the freedom to switch careers—huge! And my husband and I don’t panic when a new expense comes up. If we need a car repair, we’ll just dip into our emergency fund. We sleep easily at night, knowing that whatever happens, we will be okay financially.
Meet the Author
Today’s post is by Bailey Cummins, a twenty-something, newlywed, military wife who blogs about finances, travel, family, and everything in between. Check her out over at BecomingBailey.com.
Your Next Step
Budgeting is not restrictive. You won’t be spending less, you’ll be spending right. So what do you have to lose? Except all that debt and stress?