The other day, a friend of mine, asked me what she should do to help her 18-year-old build good credit.
Actually, that isn’t true. She said, “Will you ask Jesse what we should do to help Grace build good credit?”
But, either way, Heather this one is for you.
Help Your Kids Build A Budget
Before your kids are out of the house, help them build a budget. Sure, their inflows and outflows are minimal. They may not have a lot of immediate obligations, but the process, the habits, and the principles are what is so valuable.
YNAB is a family account, so you can open up a new budget for them in your YNAB account. Or they can take advantage of the YNAB Student Program, and get YNAB free for a year.
Teach Them How To Use A Budget
Make it something you do together, not just the one time you set it up, but regularly, maybe every time they get paid or when they get an allowance. If you are comfortable, open up your budget and show them how you prioritize, assign dollars, and account for your true expenses.
Imagine all the stress, anxiety, and debt you could help them avoid if they are fully equipped to live within their means and appreciate the value of delayed gratification before they turn 20. (Think of all the stress, anxiety, and debt you could have avoided!? Or don’t, because it could get depressing.)
And credit scores aside, if they are paying their bills on time and saving money, they will be way ahead of the game financially.
Put The Fear Of Compounding Interest In Them
Before you even think about getting your young adult a credit card, make sure they really understand how compound interest works. Don’t take anything for granted. Sit down with a calculator and show them how it adds up. If you have credit card debt stories of your own, share them with dramatic flair!
Open A Credit Card
When and only if, you feel like your child understands how to budget, is motivated to live within their means, and humbled by the thought of compound interest, consider opening a credit card.
Credit cards themselves are not bad. If you treat a credit card like a debit card, only use it for things that you already have the money to pay for, and then pay it off in full every month when the bill arrives, it is a great way to build credit.
Be sure your child knows and understands the expectations—and the consequences—before you put any plastic in their hot little hands.
A credit card is not the keys to the kingdom. It isn’t free money. It is simply an alternative payment method, to be used with respect, and perhaps, a little healthy fear.
In order to build healthy credit, you don’t need to maintain a balance, you just need to show activity on a statement. So, encourage (or enforce, depending on how financially independent your children are) very moderate use of a credit card, with the intention of always paying it off in full every month. Establishing boundaries and maintaining accountability, especially while the account is new, provides the opportunity for teachable moments.
When I was in high school, my dad opened a credit card for me. I was only allowed to use it for gas. In fact, there was one gas station, where I was allowed to get gas, no more than twice a month. Needless to say, there were rules.
And every month when he got the bill, he made a whole thing of sitting me down together, looking through it and paying it off before the due date. I’m sure there was a lot of eye-rolling on my part at the time, but I never got into any trouble with credit cards. I actually still have that account, all these years later, and for that (and other reasons, of course) I do have excellent credit.
Lead By Example
Credit cards or no credit cards, the absolute best thing you can do to help your kids build good credit is to teach them how to manage their money by example.
How you handle money, how you plan for the future, how you save (or do not save) for big purchases, how you use credit, how you prioritize—all of it—will inform the way your kids think about money, the choices they make, and ultimately, their credit scores and beyond.
Commit to getting control of your money and budgeting as a lifestyle. If not for you, do it for your kids. You cannot underestimate how much that discipline will benefit them in the long run. And not just because you’ll be able to afford a summer vacation—because they will learn how to respect the value of a dollar.